Life can be hard

LET’S MAKE PEACE — INSIDE AND OUT

I’m San — a psychologist. I spent years at war with myself (and sometimes still am).

Peace is different for everyone — with yourself, your partner, your family.
Let’s find what it looks like for you.

Let’s talk

Queer 🌈 and neurodivergent-friendly 🧠
Conventional and non-conventional relationships ❤️ & families 🏠


ONLINE · IN ENGLISH, SPANISH OR GERMAN

individual coaching $140

clinically informed 1:1 support — whatever you’re facing. 50 min.

couples & families $170

for relationships and families ready to understand each other more. 60 min.

How it works →

Self-paced support

Go as far as it feels right.

FIRST STEPS

feeling flooded $19

audio series: when your emotions feel like the enemy

feeling stuck $19

audio series: when every decision turns into a fight with yourself

GO DEEPER

slow down $97

video course: when life is too much

Peace flows both ways. Make peace with yourself, and it flows out to the people around you. Be kind to someone else, and it finds its way back in. That’s the whole idea behind RiverCalm.

Why RiverCalm?

We live in a world with a lot of fighting in it — and quieter battles inside us. The same harshness we see between people often turns inward — as self-hatred and sabotage. I’ve seen, as a psychologist and in my own life, that peace can start small and spread. That’s what RiverCalm is for.

More About San →

Can’t decide?

Start small. Let it grow.

feeling flooded
feeling stuck