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Coaching with San

Everyone is welcome: queer 🌈, neurodivergent🧠, non-conventional relationships ❤️

Coaching is a space to think out loud with someone on your side. Maybe a decision keeps going in circles, maybe life changed and you’re still catching up — or maybe nothing is wrong and you simply want more of what feels good. We look at it together and find your next step.

Online coaching session by video call

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Getting to know you

I’ll be curious about your world — what you want, what’s hard, and what’s already working. You don’t need a clear problem to start.

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The bigger picture

We put the pieces together and make sense of what’s happening — the patterns, the people around you, and the story you tell yourself about it.

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Making a plan

We choose up to three goals and small steps toward them — in session and beyond — and adjust as we go. Come once, or stay for a longer stretch.

What we can work on

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On your own

Decisions that keep going in circles · life changes and new beginnings · life as a migrant · identity, sexuality and self-acceptance · work, purpose and life projects · stress and finding your own pace · being kinder to yourself

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Together

Communication and conflict · intercultural relationships · opening or closing a relationship · moving in, marriage or parenthood · separating with care · chosen families and polyamorous constellations

How I work

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My approach

I work in a person-centered way: your experience is the starting point, and you’re the expert on your own life. I bring in tools from cognitive behavioral therapy, mindfulness, positive psychology and systemic work — whatever helps you move.

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Making peace with the parts

Underneath most of what we do is one idea — integration. Bringing the parts of you that pull in different directions into some kind of harmony. Conflict, inside and out, usually has something to teach us.

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Where I come from

Before psychology, I made documentary films. Film taught me that the stories we tell about ourselves shape our lives — and that we can rewrite them. I grew up in Mexico City and have made Berlin my home, so I know what it’s like to build a life between cultures and languages.

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What you can expect from me

Warmth and real curiosity
Honesty, offered gently
Tools you can use on your own
Sensitivity to culture, gender and neurodiversity

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What I’ll stay away from

Judging you or your choices
Telling you what’s right or wrong
Assuming I know your life better than you
Making you depend on me

About couples sessions

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With me, couples coaching and couples therapy work the same way. The name changes depending on where you live — for people in Germany and Mexico it’s called therapy, for everyone else it’s coaching. Every shape of relationship is welcome: monogamous, open, polyamorous, chosen families.

Good to know

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Who can book

Coaching is open to everyone, wherever you live.

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How it works

Sessions happen online via Zoom — you’ll get your link by email right after booking. Individual sessions last 50 minutes; couples and families, 60.

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How often

Some people come once, others stay for a longer stretch. Weekly or every two weeks works well for most, and you can change it anytime.

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Coaching or therapy?

Coaching focuses on your well-being and your next steps, without diagnosing or treating mental health conditions. If you’re going through something heavy and live in Germany or Mexico, therapy might be the better fit.

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Cancellation

Free up to 48 hours before your session.

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Invoices

Sent automatically right after you book.

Ready when you are

individual coaching $140
couples & families $170

Not sure yet? A single session is fine — no commitment to more.

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